tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post2269355858824252638..comments2023-05-02T05:47:33.107-04:00Comments on Being Crazy Shouldn't Be So Hard: My Golden RuleMalikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14638218036309666944noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-4545896248025483072009-06-04T15:35:03.614-04:002009-06-04T15:35:03.614-04:00I agree with everything you said... I had this hap...I agree with everything you said... I had this happen to me late last year... I was with a guy for 3 yrs and he was hella sweet, would do any and everything I asked... Then I messed up bringing my best friend around and they quickly bonded... Both blamed there friendship on mistakes I made that they had to work together and help me out... Then next thing I know their talking on the phone all the time and are all buddy-buddy... She's calling him for rides to far away places... And being the weak guy he was he was doing it with no problem... It bothered me but I didn't trip to much off of it... He would always tell me she wasn't his type or how madly in love he was with me... She would say how he was a lame and wasn't cute or whatever... Eventually I got tired of him and broke up with him... And to my surpise they remained friends... Started hanging out with each other and even went on a trip to vegas... That's when I quickly ended that friendship... How could my best friend go places with my ex??? Her loyalty was suppose to be to me... Hell she met him through me... I guess she got comfortable with him trickin and wasn't getting it from anyone on her own so she quickly hopped on my old train... Thats funny though... woman are a trip!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-7108073224187319952009-06-02T20:06:21.912-04:002009-06-02T20:06:21.912-04:00I understand where you are coming from. I tend to...I understand where you are coming from. I tend to compartmentalize, too. I even have different circles of friends that I do not let mix under most circumstances. Major occasions are an exception. I don't know why, but I've always been this way. It works for me.<br /><br />Girl, where have you been on RWS? I didn't even know you had a blog. Come visit mine. We can exchange blog roll listings.<br />----------------------------------------------------<br />planetjacksonworldwide.blogspot.comWild Safarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05221939772201158585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-45286007509101893262009-06-02T00:28:47.325-04:002009-06-02T00:28:47.325-04:00sorry, cecelia, its not about being territorial, i...sorry, cecelia, its not about being territorial, its about not complicating my life. you can claim all day that you're okay with your best friend and your man hooking up, you're either not wrapped too tight, or you're weak and you enjoy getting stepped on.Malikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14638218036309666944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-84518074630513586452009-06-01T15:40:16.011-04:002009-06-01T15:40:16.011-04:00its funny. im kind of the opposite. if my best fri...its funny. im kind of the opposite. if my best friend and boyfriend talk, im not threatened. if they end up bonding in such a way that ends me and his relationship, its all good, because i do believe things happen for a reason and if me and his bond wasnt strong enough to prevent his and hers.. so? i care about my best friend and my boyfriend enough to want them to be happy, and if that means being together, then so be it. humans are so territorial, lol.cecelia;https://www.blogger.com/profile/05318933250387015793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-5102589697971661812009-05-28T14:23:08.781-04:002009-05-28T14:23:08.781-04:00I agree, some things you should just keep separate...I agree, some things you should just keep separate but how in the hell does your best friend become friends with teh ex bm and stop talking to you.<br />SMHKingsmommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06370183128501308185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-90073282564169326472009-05-27T22:26:46.393-04:002009-05-27T22:26:46.393-04:00I am in complete agreement with youI am in complete agreement with youMiss.Stefaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09271273142396372698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-35839017371652584922009-05-27T17:14:29.886-04:002009-05-27T17:14:29.886-04:00Yeah, you have a point. Things get waaaaaaay too c...Yeah, you have a point. Things get waaaaaaay too complicated lolEddiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12649254649351244162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2147897870935247498.post-60357557054249967882009-05-27T15:53:29.621-04:002009-05-27T15:53:29.621-04:00I dont blame you and I agreeI dont blame you and I agreeMillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06071834692363269827noreply@blogger.com